(bright music) Welcome to negotiation and the sales process. In these lessons, we'll discuss how to negotiate in sales, and how to ensure the process uncovers any issues before the final negotiations begin. You'll also learn some key concepts about negotiations and the sales process. First, let's define the terms, negotiating and compromising. The Miriam Webster dictionary defines negotiate as to discuss something formally in order to make an agreement. This suggests it is an intentional process between at least two parties to come to a mutual agreement on a particular transaction. Compromise, on the other hand, is defined by Miriam Webster as a way of reaching an agreement in which each person or group gives up something that was wanted in order to end an argument or a dispute. Now let's examine the similarities and differences between negotiations and compromises. A commonality between these two words is that both mean likely giving something up. For example, if entered into by both parties with a a sense of fairness to reach a consensus, negotiations will likely involve some give and take. But this can be a positive and satisfying process for all when done well. Negotiation has multiple elements of discovery, many rankings of priorities, and focuses on a mutually beneficial end goal. That mutually beneficial end goal is what you are willing to work on together to reach an agreeable solution. Compromising often has a negative connotation. Meaning if I win, you lose, or if you win, I lose. Although compromising may be easier and quicker in some situations, a more collaborative negotiating style will likely lead to mutual satisfaction and a sense of inclusion. For example, let's say you want to exercise for an hour a day. You're too tired after work because your sleeping habits are inconsistent. You don't want to get up early to work out because your favorite show comes on late at night. In order to reach your fitness goals, there needs to be a compromise somewhere, right? Knowing you're more of a night person, you decide you want to exercise in the mornings, but need to get up earlier. You go to sleep earlier, feel energized when you get up to do your workout, and make time to watch your favorite show when you get home. Congratulations! You just reached a great compromise with yourself. It's best not to think of negotiating as a series of multiple compromises. You can think of it as a way to collaborate with the other party. Negotiating helps find a method to satisfy most of the important aspects for each side by being fair and logical.