(gentle suspenseful music) You've alerted an authority about someone who is bullying you or someone else. What do you do in the meantime? In these lessons, we'll talk about how you can avoid isolation and intimidation. We'll also address a victim's mental health and how to seek support and legal services. After reporting an incident of bullying, it may take some time for any action to take place. This can be an uncomfortable waiting period for the victim. It's crucial to know how to handle this stressful time with healthy coping mechanisms. Some people may try to isolate themselves at work, to cope with workplace bullying. This is especially true for those who are nervous about reporting a bullying incident. After filing a report, it may be an employee's first instinct to avoid coworkers and supervisors, in case there are any repercussions, but this approach can cause more negative feelings and stress. It's a good practice to continue forming positive connections with peers at work. Remember that reporting a bully isn't wrong, if it's an honest report. This circumstance doesn't have to impact your professional relationships with others. Another negative coping mechanism that some people try is intimidating their bully in return. This response can make the situation worse by creating a continuous cycle of bullying. Violence and aggression can become a cycle that continues until someone is brave enough to stop. Intimidating the bully, whether by mimicking their behavior, or discussing the report with them, will only make things worse. Losing the respect of others. Bullies are feared, but not respected. If you start performing the same negative behaviors as the bully, your peers will start to lose their respect for you and, losing any legal or professional standing you have in the case. If you've reported that you've been bullied, imagine how your case will look, if you've also acted aggressively toward the bully. Make sure that your behavior remains respectful during the investigation period. Both isolation and intimidation are unhealthy coping mechanisms on opposite sides of the spectrum. One involves removing yourself from all work relationships, and hoping that the problem will disappear, while the other involves engaging the bully with their own tactics, creating an endless cycle of cruelty. If you are being bullied, seek out allies at work and actively look for ways to solve the problem. Managing such a difficult situation takes balance, good sense, and the support of others.