(bright music) Have you ever been in a situation where people seem to have completely different opinions on what the value of something is? In these lessons on value and negotiation in sales, we'll review some key ways to focus on value during the negotiation process. We will also address subjective value, value claiming and its impact, value creation in negotiations, and the relationship between value, price, and the offer. How do people determine value? The definition may be subjective as the value set for something may seem like a great deal to one person, but the other party doesn't see it that way at all. Selling value is different from selling on price. Let's start with emotions and their relationship to value in sales negotiations. As humans, our emotions are unavoidable, and can either be recognized or unrecognized. Emotions are essentially who we are, and drive how we are designed to function. They can be negative, or positive, and are powerful influencers. Emotions can cloud the negotiation process by distracting each party from focusing on the main matters at hand. They can also play a role in negotiations. On the transactional side of sales, people buy based on emotion far more than need. Believing you need an item, feeling excited you'll finally get it, and knowing what it can do for you are all emotions by the perceived value as defined by that individual. Learning the why of the emotion and its trigger will help you to understand what's motivating the prospect. Don't debate the validity of the emotion. You'll rarely win, and can't argue against it logically. No matter how wrong or right you feel it is, it is a best practice to address positive or negative emotions. Once you know the source of the emotion, you can focus on reasons, not symptoms. Positive and negative emotions are equal in the sales process. They determine the outcome. People often think they buy logically, but that's actually relatively rare. We search for ways to justify logic via emotion. So, spending time understanding the buyer's emotional reasons for exploring this deal is critical. It is also important for you to keep your own emotions in check, and maintain your composure during the process. Effective negotiators usually have a high emotional intelligence, or EQ. This is because they're able to stay grounded throughout the process. They remember the sales negotiation process is about helping to get what they want in the negotiation. So they consciously work on staying centered, especially when they feel their emotions heating up for any reason.