(bright music) Let's go over the different environments where customer abuse occurs, how these settings may influence the customer's behavior, and how you can respond to them most effectively. The first environment is in-person situations. These are often retail stores and restaurants where employees have direct contact with customers. Although phone and online customer abuse can be difficult, in-person situations can be the most dangerous to your physical safety, if problems arise. It's important to read customer social cues and remain mindful of your behavior throughout the interaction. Be aware of your body language. When you're experiencing an in-person interaction with an abusive customer, regulate your body language to stay in control of the situation. Keep your physical presence assertive, but not aggressive. An assertive presence allows you to convey your wants and needs in a confident manner. Having non-threatening body language and using a respectful communication style may help deescalate potential customer aggression. Here are a few tips on how to remain assertive. Keep calm. Don't let the customer's aggression transfer to you. Take a few deep breaths and stay grounded. Stand tall and know your worth. Keep good posture and stand tall. Assertive body language can reinforce your value and confidence. It can also demonstrate that you're hard to intimidate, even when customers are trying their best to make you uncomfortable. Avoid aggression. During an abusive interaction, avoid aggressive body language. For example, avoid cornering the customer, angrily gesturing, yelling, making threats, or anything else that would convey your dissatisfaction. Being aggressive toward the abusive customer will only make the situation worse. It's in your best interest to stay as unmoved as possible by their behavior. Be conscious of other customers. When dealing with an abusive customer, non-abusive customers may be present, either in line or in the surrounding area. It's important to remember that they also deserve a good experience. Try not to let the abusive customer hinder the experience of those who are behaving patiently and respectfully. Be prepared for the possibility of another customer getting involved in the interaction between you and the abusive customer. If the customer is supporting the abuse, the same rules apply for deescalating. If another customer tries to defend you, things can get a little more complicated. The customer defending you can make the abusive customer become more aggressive. Continue to remain calm and diffuse the situation. This may include ensuring another argument doesn't break out between customers, or having a, the customer is always right, attitude, and apologizing for any inconvenience. Be proactive about your physical safety. When dealing with customers in person, remain conscious of any escalating anger to ensure your own safety. Look for red flags that may indicate the customer might start acting physically abusive, or signs that you could be in danger. Have a plan for what to do or who to contact in case of an emergency. In-person customer interactions pose different challenges than virtual or phone interactions. Since in-person customers are closer in proximity to you, aggression could turn physical. Use these tools to be proactive, remain calm, and protect yourself.